Nothing about this article is intended to promote non-monogamy to those uninterested in it. It's simply about me and my experiences. Also, not included in this article are the details of how miserable I was in my previous monogamous relationships. I am a queer person who practices non-monogamy - I don't have much experience feeling supported by laws, government policies or society in general. I also don't see your point in regard to "running headfirst into human nature, child support, home maintenance, spousal support..." as though people who have monogamous relationships don't also face those challenges. Thankfully I don't need you to agree with it to continue to live what has become, frankly, my best life.